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How to Flirt with a Text

How to Flirt with a Text

Often times people ask me both how to decode text messages from someone you’re dating and what to say or text someone they like. There’s no one text that works for every message, but here’s one tip you can implement.

When you’re texting you lose the tone and feeling that you would hear from someone if you were talking instead. One way to make up for that is by using emojis. This goes for women as well as you guys out there. Women will see you as being cute if you’re using emojis and men will see women as being sweet or feminine. Sometimes less is better.

Using emojis as a visual will be entertaining and they’ll think of you as fun, lighthearted, and even can leave a bit of mystery. Texting and using emojis is a way to flirt or say something without saying it directly. Don’t be afraid to use the emojis, but also don’t go overboard. 😉

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How to Overcome Jealousy

How to Overcome Jealousy

Have you ever felt jealousy that you just couldn’t explain? It wasn’t anything that your partner was doing necessarily. You knew you were wrong in feeling jealous. While feeling insecure in your relationship means that you likely feel insecure in other parts of your life.

The way to address this is by building up your confidence. Do things outside of your relationship that makes you feel good and improve your self-esteem. This, in turn, will help you feel better with your partner.

Some things you can do is focus on the exterior – hit the gym and workout, get a new hairstyle or makeover, or go to the mall to update your look if you haven’t done so in a while. The next step is to look at areas in your life where you can expand. You may consider learning another language, sport, or taking a class. All of these things will help you to expand and feel better about yourself. The final area that you need to focus on is self-love.

I know this sounds kind of corny, but hear me out. We all have those negative voices in the back of our heads that put us down. You need to tell them to shut up and replace the negativity with positive affirmations. Reprogram your brain. Thoughts lead to words, words lead to actions. Positive affirmations are a way to retrain your mind to change your thoughts.

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How to Decode Text Messages From Someone You're Dating

How to Decode Text Messages From Someone You're Dating

Have you ever received one of those cryptic texts that left you looking at your phone. What does that even mean? Today I’m going to discuss 3 text messages that people consistently send and how you, as a self-respecting individual can respond.

Will You Ever Find the One?

Will You Ever Find the One?

Hi there! I'm April Davis dating coach and matchmaker at LUMASearch.com. Something I hear over and over as a matchmaker is: “will I ever find the one?” This question is interesting to me for two reasons. Firstly, what defines “the one?” And secondly, who has the ultimate answer to this question? We grew up with childhood fairytales and the pressure of society to “settle down” and get married. But often we are left wondering why our lives are not living up to our childhood expectations. Love and romance are much more complicated in the real world than what we read about in fairy tales or see in the movies.

Are Your Dating Expectations Too High?

Are Your Dating Expectations Too High?

Have you ever started dating someone and things were great to begin with only to be disappointed a few weeks or days later? We all have a picture in our minds of what our ideal relationship would look like. It may be half concocted from what Hollywood has sold us and the other half from seeing our friend’s perfect relationships posted all over social media.