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How to Overcome Jealousy

How to Overcome Jealousy

Have you ever felt jealousy that you just couldn’t explain? It wasn’t anything that your partner was doing necessarily. You knew you were wrong in feeling jealous. While feeling insecure in your relationship means that you likely feel insecure in other parts of your life.

The way to address this is by building up your confidence. Do things outside of your relationship that makes you feel good and improve your self-esteem. This, in turn, will help you feel better with your partner.

Some things you can do is focus on the exterior – hit the gym and workout, get a new hairstyle or makeover, or go to the mall to update your look if you haven’t done so in a while. The next step is to look at areas in your life where you can expand. You may consider learning another language, sport, or taking a class. All of these things will help you to expand and feel better about yourself. The final area that you need to focus on is self-love.

I know this sounds kind of corny, but hear me out. We all have those negative voices in the back of our heads that put us down. You need to tell them to shut up and replace the negativity with positive affirmations. Reprogram your brain. Thoughts lead to words, words lead to actions. Positive affirmations are a way to retrain your mind to change your thoughts.



How to Make Them Want You

Have you ever broke up with someone and then down the road, you see them doing something new and different that they had never done before when you were together?

Or have you ever had an ex resurface when they see you moving on with your life and doing some new things such as travel, or have new hobbies and interests?

When you do something new and different for yourself, it’s called self-expansion. Self-expansion is found to increase sexual attraction when a person sees someone in a new light. In other words, the more someone self-expands by doing new things (like doing a new hobby or learning a new skill such as dancing or learning to ride a motorcycle), the more your ex or current partner will find you attractive and feel excited or aroused by you.

So expanding your skills will not only make you well-rounded and increase your confidence, it will make you more attractive. Sounds like you can’t go wrong there!

What have you done to self-expand? Let us know in the comments below!

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How to Decode Text Messages From Someone You're Dating

How to Decode Text Messages From Someone You're Dating

Have you ever received one of those cryptic texts that left you looking at your phone. What does that even mean? Today I’m going to discuss 3 text messages that people consistently send and how you, as a self-respecting individual can respond.

5 Tips To Become Relationship Ready

5 Tips To Become Relationship Ready

Women often complain to me all the good guys are taken. They say the reason they’re single is
because there aren’t any available men, they don’t have time for dating, or they’re afraid of
wasting their time and risking a broken heart. All of these perspectives make you unavailable.
Thoughts lead to words and words lead to actions. You must change something in your patterns
so that you can meet your true love. Take a sheet of paper and a pen and scribble down what
might be interfering with your openness in the dating world. What are your beliefs on dating and
what are you afraid of? By knowing what’s wrong, you can address and fix your patterns. Here
are my top 5 tips for being open and therefore, become more available.