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5 Tips To Become Relationship Ready

5 Tips To Become Relationship Ready

Women often complain to me all the good guys are taken. They say the reason they’re single is
because there aren’t any available men, they don’t have time for dating, or they’re afraid of
wasting their time and risking a broken heart. All of these perspectives make you unavailable.
Thoughts lead to words and words lead to actions. You must change something in your patterns
so that you can meet your true love. Take a sheet of paper and a pen and scribble down what
might be interfering with your openness in the dating world. What are your beliefs on dating and
what are you afraid of? By knowing what’s wrong, you can address and fix your patterns. Here
are my top 5 tips for being open and therefore, become more available.

Why Are You Always Getting Dumped Or Dumping Someone?

Why Are You Always Getting Dumped Or Dumping Someone?

Hi I'm April Davis matchmaker and dating coach with LUMASearch.com. Today I’m going to be answering a question we received from one of our Members. Alyssa, from Chicago asked, Why is it some of us are always the ones pulling the plug while others always have the rug pulled out from underfoot?

How To Be The Nice Guy, But Not Finish Last

How To Be The Nice Guy, But Not Finish Last

Most men want to make their woman happy. If this is you also, you’ll try to be nice by constantly letting her have her way and trying hard to please her. Most important, because you don’t want to argue, you’ll always let her win. Well, guess what? Instead of being a good boyfriend, you’ve effectively become a doormat.
You have to understand what women really want so you can avoid the “nice guy” label. We all
know nice guys finish last.

Get Him to Commit

Get Him to Commit

The Truth Hurts. I am going to pull you aside for just a second and tell a truth that most people skirt around. It’s a bit painful, but it’s a fact. When a man says that he doesn’t want a relationship, isn’t ready for a relationship, or isn’t the relationship type; no matter what syntax he uses … he is telling you the truth, just a softened version it. Now, this doesn’t mean that he won’t be ready for a relationship in the future, but some things have already happened that have led him to make up his mind about you. Although he may change his mind about relationships, he most likely won’t change his mind about one with you.