Hi I'm April Davis matchmaker and dating coach with LUMASearch.com. Today I’m going to be answering a question we received from one of our Members. Alyssa, from Chicago asked, Why is it some of us are always the ones pulling the plug while others always have the rug pulled out from underfoot?
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When venturing out into the dating world you will encounter all kinds of people with all kinds of different intentions. It can be difficult to know who is in it to just hook up, who’s not quite ready for a relationship, and who is. We put together a list of three things to look for when considering potential matches.
The Truth Hurts. I am going to pull you aside for just a second and tell a truth that most people skirt around. It’s a bit painful, but it’s a fact. When a man says that he doesn’t want a relationship, isn’t ready for a relationship, or isn’t the relationship type; no matter what syntax he uses … he is telling you the truth, just a softened version it. Now, this doesn’t mean that he won’t be ready for a relationship in the future, but some things have already happened that have led him to make up his mind about you. Although he may change his mind about relationships, he most likely won’t change his mind about one with you.