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Spring Clean Your Love Life

Spring Clean Your Love Life

Spring is the season for fresh starts, especially when it comes to love. There’s truth to the saying “Spring Flings turn to Summer Romances”. April is a common time for breakups, and many singles are ready to start looking for a fresh beginning with someone new.

Here’s how you can get yourself on your “A” Game for Spring Dating this year:

1. Dust off your confidence

Get out of hibernation mode and show the world that you’ve done so! Buy some nice new outfits, exercise more frequently, and/or get a haircut. Then, update your social media profile pictures sporting your fresh new look.

2. Delete the duds

Now is a good time to break free from the ones you don’t see a future relationship with. Delete contacts that are “old flames” that shouldn’t be rekindled.

3. Refresh your routine.

Get out there! Doing more activities you already love or have an interest in can help you meet other singles with the same interests as you. Are you into fitness and want a fit partner? Start up a gym membership and initiate a conversation with the cutie working out next to you. Love dogs? Take your pup to the dog park and start up a conversation with other dog owners. The opportunities here are limitless!

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What People Say VS. What They Really Mean

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How to Have a Great Conversation on a Date

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Conversations. We hear them everyday and everywhere; on the news, on the train, at the office, at the mall. People talking about the weather, their families, the news, their lives, the new boss. In the dating world, good conversations are the key to good chemistry. Have you ever been out to dinner and your date just won’t stop talking? You wonder if you will ever get in a word in edgewise? Or have you been on a date where it is like pulling teeth just to get the conversation going? You are left with one word answers and then the dreaded awkward silence as you both wait for the check. Every now and then you will stumble upon someone who you can just talk to naturally for hours. Even after you leave the restaurant, you might still talk on the phone for longer.

But what does it take to be a great conversationalist? Perhaps conversations make you nervous. Or maybe you have been told that you dominate conversations. Once you learn to carry good conversations with anyone and everyone, you will see how easily it translates to dating and relationships. Here are four key ways to perfect the art of conversations:

Will You Ever Find the One?

Will You Ever Find the One?

Hi there! I'm April Davis dating coach and matchmaker at LUMASearch.com. Something I hear over and over as a matchmaker is: “will I ever find the one?” This question is interesting to me for two reasons. Firstly, what defines “the one?” And secondly, who has the ultimate answer to this question? We grew up with childhood fairytales and the pressure of society to “settle down” and get married. But often we are left wondering why our lives are not living up to our childhood expectations. Love and romance are much more complicated in the real world than what we read about in fairy tales or see in the movies.