Have you ever broke up with someone and then down the road, you see them doing something new and different that they had never done before when you were together?

Or have you ever had an ex resurface when they see you moving on with your life and doing some new things such as travel, or have new hobbies and interests?

When you do something new and different for yourself, it’s called self-expansion. Self-expansion is found to increase sexual attraction when a person sees someone in a new light. In other words, the more someone self-expands by doing new things (like doing a new hobby or learning a new skill such as dancing or learning to ride a motorcycle), the more your ex or current partner will find you attractive and feel excited or aroused by you.

So expanding your skills will not only make you well-rounded and increase your confidence, it will make you more attractive. Sounds like you can’t go wrong there!

What have you done to self-expand? Let us know in the comments below!

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