People are always asking me how to tell is someone is into them or not. If you’re looking for a serious relationship and are trying to avoid “freckling”, it’s important to know the signs that show if they’re actually into you or not. Here are a couple of quick tips to help you determine if they’re interested.
1. Body language
A picture says a thousand words and so their body language is a great picture of their interest. Are they looking at you? Smiling? Laughing? Do they truly look open, well engaged and like they’re genuinely enjoying the conversation and your company? A person’s eyes and smile can tell you a lot. They’ll be smiling and laughing even when you’re just talking about basic topics because they’re so engaged and interested in you.
Are they constantly close to you or finding ways or reasons to get closer to you? When you’re in a bar, grocery store or some other room together, are they nearby within eyesight or reach almost the whole time. Maybe you catch their eyes a few times. Many times people will pretend like they’re interested in something or someone near you in order to get closer and then make their move. For example, if you’re at the bar, they may choose to order from the bartender conveniently right next to you in order to create an opening. If you’re talking to eachother and you notice they’re leaning in a lot to talk to you and be closer to you, that’s usually a good sign they’re interested.
People don’t touch people they don’t like. Especially women. They’re not going to reach out and touch a guy they’re not into and likewise, they’re not going to be comfortable with a guy touching them who they’re not into. If someone is into you, they’re going to try to find a way to bridge that connection and reach out to you. It may just be a simple high five or handshake introduction. It doesn’t have to be a seductive touch. It could just be them touching your arm in conversation or putting their hand on your back as they’re walking behind you. All of these are ways they’re reaching out to connect because people touch those they like even if it’s just in a friendly fun way.
There you have it. 3 tips to help you to know if someone is into you!