As a Matchmaker I get to hear all kinds of stories about why people break up and recently a very successful attractive woman came to us and explained that she had left her boyfriend.  Even though they had a great relationship she left him because she felt like she could do better and that she was settling with this guy.

It just really bothers me because I feel like people put too much emphasis on the stuff that is really superficial, like job title,  bank account, and whatever else because all that stuff doesn't matter at the end of the day.  Your relationship and the relationships around you, all of them, whether it's romantic or family, or friends, you know those are the most important things in life.

So instead of having this attitude that we do in society these days with online dating and having thousands of people at our fingertips on these apps we think that we can just throw people away, and they're disposable, because we can just go back on and go fishing again and catch another person because there's plenty of fish out there. With that kind of thinking you're never going to be satisfied and you're never going to be happy with the person you're with.

It's when you change your mindset to just focus on your relationship and trying to improve your relationship instead that you will ultimately be happy.

I'm curious to know your thoughts please share them in the comments below because this is an issue that is near and dear to me so I would love to hear what you have to say thanks much and see you next time!