As a Matchmaker I can tell you just how hard it is for people to meet someone, but I can also tell you there’s one key difference between those who are meeting and attracting their ideal mate and those who just expect them to show up one day.
What’s the difference you ask? It’s simple, they try. These are the people that have decided they want to do something with their lives to improve it and will do what’s necessary to improve themselves and the options in mates around them. I always like the saying, if you don’t like the fish you’re catching, it’s time to change your bait.
Let me ask you this, what’s the key to happiness and what is it that you’ll be most grateful for when you’re on your death bed? Is it money, beauty, a great career? No, it’s the people and relationships around you. So we invest all this time, money, and energy into our college education so we can attain the career we desire, but when it comes to the most important thing in life, our relationships, so often people don’t do anything or just learn as we go.
Everyone knows relationships take work while we’re in them, but it also takes work to attract a great partner. After all, like attracts like. The better prepared and knowledgeable you are going in, the more you have to offer and your stock value as a mate increases. The dating scene is a market with competition and supply and demand. You want to be supplying what the opposite sex is demanding or you’ll be lonely.
A Dating Coach is like any other type of Coach or Consultant. They’re experts in their field and have dealt a lot with issues surrounding people trying to attract and retain the relationship they desire. They’re going to give you insights and help you to work on things that are preventing you from achieving your goals. They may even help you to figure out what your goals actually are and come up with a plan on how to achieve them. They’ll break it down step by step and hold you accountable to taking the steps you promised yourself that you would in order to get there. Sometimes we all need someone to just help guide us to where we need to go and to call us out when we’re getting in our own way.
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