Have you ever broke up with someone and then down the road you see them doing something new and different they never had done when they were with you? Or have you had an ex resurface when they see you moving on with your life and doing some new things like travel or new hobbies and interests? When you do something new and different for you, it’s called self expression.
Self-expansion is found to increase sexual attraction when a person sees someone in a new light. In other words, the more someone self-expands by doing things like, starting a new hobby or learning a new skill such as dancing or learning to ride a motorcycle, the more your ex or current partner will find you attractive and feel excited or aroused by you.
So expanding your skills will not only make you more well-rounded and increase your confidence, it will make you more attractive.