How to Approach a Woman

How to Approach a Woman

I meet a ton of extremely powerful and successful men who are courageous, resourceful and intelligent in their daily lives, but when they have to make the first contact with a woman they become timid boys. Approach anxiety is something that every guy is born with, and it’s not their fault. Women can be really rude.  Recently, a guy told me a story about a time at a lounge when he went up to say Hi to a woman and she literally responded, “What makes you think you can talk to me.” As if she was way too good for him and he wasn’t worthy of breathing the same air as her. Talk about brutal. 

I’m sure that you’ve also started to fumble or stutter when you wanted to approach someone you liked. You’ve even told yourself excuses like ‘I’m not in the mood right now’, or ‘He or she looks too busy or looks like a stuck up beep’. Fortunately, I have some ways on how to defeat approach anxiety and how to approach people that really work.

5 Tips to Conquer Your Nerves

5 Tips to Conquer Your Nerves

Most people get the first date jitters. They get really, really nervous before first dates that they actually dread going on them. It’s something normal. We’ve all been there. 

Now, let me tell you about one of my good friends, Mark. He saw this beautiful woman standing right in front of him at the coffee shop and, getting over his anxiety, he made the first move and said ‘Hi’!’ As they chatted, Mark was attracted to her chocolate-brown long hair, green eyes, and charming personality. He wanted to see her again, so he asked her on a first date. In the hours before the date, he got restless and started to feel these huge knots in his stomach. He even called me to ask me if he should cancel the date.

Does this sound familiar? Have you ever felt this nervous while dating, or when asking for a number? Well, here are some tips for calming your nerves and getting over the jitters.

Top Singles Bars in Phoenix and Scottsdale

Top Singles Bars in Phoenix and Scottsdale

If you have ever seen the show Cheers, you know that bars are the classic place to meet new people. Bars are a place to drink, relax, and most importantly, to socialize. Here are 19 great bars in the wonderful city of Phoenix…